Looks don’t matter to you? They more than likely matter to people who are willing to put in the effort themselves, to the level they are willing to put the effort into it. If looks don’t matter to you, they may matter to other people, and you must be OK with that.
Intelligence doesn’t matter? IQ is the SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT factor to match for relationships. You may not notice the importance if you haven’t tried to form a meaningful connection to someone whose IQ is 30 points or more lower than yours. (From an average person’s perspective, we’d be looking at a person with an IQ of 60, “significantly impaired mental development”. Yet, a low-level genius, someone just barely smart enough to enter Mensa, has an IQ 50 points higher than the average person. IT MATTERS.)
Mutual interests are for children? Relationships are for more than just survival. We’re not attempting to match household chore schedules, we’re supposed to enjoy life just by being with the people we enjoy being with.
Don’t confuse lust with love? Lust may not always lead to love, but if there is no lust, it’s definitely not romantic love. “I’m just not attracted to you.” Is a perfectly valid reason for rejection.
Women just don’t want sex like men do? Heterosexual women do want sex with men as much as men want sex with women; it’s just that we cannot compete with a closet lesbian willing to play the role of a sexual vixen with a high sexual moral code just long enough to get a commitment out of a guy. Don’t be fooled by “sexual morals.” Only lesbians and die-hard religious people uphold those past the age of 19 when they finally figure out how silly they are.
Men just don’t want relationships? Men don’t want relationships with women they’re not attracted to or in love with. Just like women don’t.
Commitment phobic? Or just a person afraid of making lifelong commitments to people who should be nothing but temporary acquaintances if that.
Commitment is the key? Only if you are happy with a mediocre relationship with a random person because you want to avoid facing a real person and possible rejection and abandonment as a result of being known.
What matters in relationships is up to a community vote?! Not anymore. YOU decide what matters to you in a relationship, no matter how meaningless it may seem to someone looking for a partner in a narcissistic survivor game rather than a true soul connection and a romantic partner.
Men and women cannot be just friends? We can if we’re not mutually attracted to each other… Nor too narcissistic to accept not everyone wants to jump your bones.
Come and make friends with people who are more than happy to keep you company in all ways sensual until you find your true love – and help you find them, too!
