“When I first heard the term ‘home page’ back in the late 90’s, I imagined the Internet to be what Second Life is. I loved it. I felt disappointed when GeoCities address at Paris Jardin didn’t have cities, homes, nor streets, but I passionately love and loved the Internet regardless. I had to wait a little for it to become the Internet in 3D. That’s Second Life. With cities, homes, and streets.”
Sebastyne Alpha
ZEN METAL is blogger Sebastyne Alpha’s Second Life hangout for her readers. If you don’t read my blogs yet, pick a blog and join in.
ZEN METAL is for looking for friends, dating, and sexual experimentation. I encourage seeking real-life connections. (Stay safe). How far in the world you cast your line is up to you.
You are welcome to “tourist” and “lurk”.
Dresscode: Come as your real self (unless otherwise requested).
Please look as closely to your real-life self as you can achieve with your current skills, funds, and time. This includes your height.
Rules: We are here to learn more about ourselves and people different from us (those weirdoes across the street); therefore, everyone is welcome TO DISAGREE with each other. We will work on our allodoxaphobia (the fear of hearing an opposing opinion or viewpoint) and our doxaphobia (the fear of expressing an opposing opinion or viewpoint). Those are the rules. The objective is NOT TO make others agree with you but to understand why others believe what they believe. Over-heated arguments may be cut by a moderator’s decision to kick and put a temporary ban (cool off period) on the person who seems not to understand the point of this type of conversation… Yet.
OBJECTIVE: Find the right people, the ones who are HONESTLY the same as ourselves in friendship, love, and sex, and let go of those who are not.
Different Venues and Events Have Different Rules
ZEN METAL is not a one-trick pony. Different events, clubs, and venues have different kinks they cater to. Before joining in, check the purpose of the gathering, and know that the rules will be enforced. If you don’t like the rules, you shouldn’t be there. It will not be fun for a submissive female to be submissive if, let’s say, ball-busting women turn off all the doms who don’t like having their heads bitten off by spiky women. That said, if you’re a soft dom, don’t appear at clubs made for men who are going to fist down their bitches, yes? One of ZEN METAL’s appeals is that I will always endeavour to explain the OTHER PERSPECTIVE – why there will be all these different clubs around!
Newbie tip:
Walk around ZEN METAL Gowers and touch things, pay attention to the Local Chat (object talk), and get your bearings. I’ve tried to make things newbie and loner-friendly, so you can figure things out in peace.
If you are new to Second Life, find instructions here.